... or WTWWW for short.
Me: We're going to explore the creek trail. Them: Okie Me: We are not getting in the water. No water play today. Them: Okie Me: Seriously guys, we have like a gazillion errands to run and we're not running them with drippy pants and squishy shoes. Them: Okie Me: For real. Nobody gets in the water. I"m looking at you Ellie. Them: Got it. Five minutes after getting out the car ... one is sitting in the creek ... one is covered in sand ... the other is two minutes away from falling in completely. Soooo, we scrapped our errands and just went swimming instead.
Liam was sketching, Ellie was making a rock cafe, and Gwyn was immersed in some sort of Sand Queen in a Sand Castle kind of game. Their interests collided every now and again, and then they would become reabsorbed in their own play. I just tiptoed out of the way and watched. Then I wondered, How long would they just play like this if I wasn't rushing in and rushing them away to the next thing? How long before they got bored or hungry or tired? So I let them go. I tried to ignore my rumbling stomach, my inclination to think and live ten steps ahead, and the knowledge that they were inevitably going to bring half the creek home with them, which would mean wet sand, pockets full of rocks, hosing them down before letting them inside, baths after that, and probably cereal for dinner because we're too ravenous after all that adventuring to cook a proper meal. And it took a little bit, but I was able to acknowledge all of those mama mutterings and then send them floating down the creek.
I saw them, working earnestly, digging, drawing, piling, splashing, exploring, and I just wanted to live whole heartedly in that moment with them. They were not thinking about the wet car ride home, or what they were going to eat once they realized they were hungry, or the baths they would have to take, or the loads of laundry waiting for them after such an afternoon as this. For three hours there was nothing but water and pebbles and sand and trees and sunshine.
Me: We're going to explore the creek trail. Them: Okie Me: We are not getting in the water. No water play today. Them: Okie Me: Seriously guys, we have like a gazillion errands to run and we're not running them with drippy pants and squishy shoes. Them: Okie Me: For real. Nobody gets in the water. I"m looking at you Ellie. Them: Got it. Five minutes after getting out the car ... one is sitting in the creek ... one is covered in sand ... the other is two minutes away from falling in completely. Soooo, we scrapped our errands and just went swimming instead.
Liam was sketching, Ellie was making a rock cafe, and Gwyn was immersed in some sort of Sand Queen in a Sand Castle kind of game. Their interests collided every now and again, and then they would become reabsorbed in their own play. I just tiptoed out of the way and watched. Then I wondered, How long would they just play like this if I wasn't rushing in and rushing them away to the next thing? How long before they got bored or hungry or tired? So I let them go. I tried to ignore my rumbling stomach, my inclination to think and live ten steps ahead, and the knowledge that they were inevitably going to bring half the creek home with them, which would mean wet sand, pockets full of rocks, hosing them down before letting them inside, baths after that, and probably cereal for dinner because we're too ravenous after all that adventuring to cook a proper meal. And it took a little bit, but I was able to acknowledge all of those mama mutterings and then send them floating down the creek.
I saw them, working earnestly, digging, drawing, piling, splashing, exploring, and I just wanted to live whole heartedly in that moment with them. They were not thinking about the wet car ride home, or what they were going to eat once they realized they were hungry, or the baths they would have to take, or the loads of laundry waiting for them after such an afternoon as this. For three hours there was nothing but water and pebbles and sand and trees and sunshine.




















































